Your First Casual Meeting: What To Expect

The first time I met a girl off the Internet, I was a bit nervous. Would she look the same as she did in her picture? Would she like me as much in person as she did online? These questions ran through my mind as I prepared for the first date. I was so nervous that I almost considered not showing up. Fortunately, I decided to not be a big pussy and got my mind straight and showed up.


Although I was able to get in my car and drive to the bar where I planned on meeting my date, I really didn’t know what to expect. I was hopeful I would get laid that night but I wasn’t sure if she would put out so quickly. Sure, we mostly talked about sex online and through SMS but I wasn’t sure if she would make me wait to hit it. She didn’t make me wait for sex. She gave it up later that night. So what should you expect on your first date?

Talked about sex

Talked about sex

She’ll be craving your cock

You may not be aware of this, but the woman you’re meeting has already decided she wants to fuck you. I didn’t realize this on my first date, so I was a bit nervous. I had hoped to get laid, but I didn’t even know if she wanted me. Yeah, she made a bunch of comments online about how horny she was for me, but people say things they don’t mean online all the time.

After my first ever casual meeting, I learned that the women we meet on casual sex dating sites have already decided they want the cock BEFORE agreeing to meet for drinks, dinner, whatever. Does that help put your mind at ease and make you feel more relaxed? Trust me, if she agrees to meet you, she’s planning on doing you. Sometimes it won’t be on the first date, but she fully intends on giving it up at some point.

 Meet on casual sex

Meet on casual sex

She still might not EVER put out

I know what you’re thinking – didn’t I just say she’s already decided she wants your cock? I did, however, that’s still not a guarantee she’s going to allow you to get down her pants. When you spoke with her online, over the phone, via SMS, you did something to impress her or she wouldn’t have agreed to meet you. Whatever it was that you did, you MUST act the same way on the date. If not, she’ll change her opinion of you and think you were just putting on an act.

If you were playing off the bad boy persona online, that’s how you should act around her offline. So don’t go out expecting to get laid without trying to continue impressing her just because you know she’s already decided she wants to have sex with you. Women change their minds easily. Don’t give her any reasons to.

She wants to have sex with you

She wants to have sex with you

Most women WILL put out on the first date if there’s chemistry

You shouldn’t expect to just show up and get laid. But you should expect to get laid if you show up dressed to impress and ready to charm her. Don’t plan on spending hours at a bar getting wasted. Plan on taking her to a quiet lounge for a few drinks, charm her for a while, and then offer to take her back to your place. At least 75% of the women you meet on casual sex dating sites will put out if you have a little bit of game and offer up the cock.