I think I’m a pretty nice guy. I really don’t like hurting someone’s feelings or angering them. I try to lead a drama-free life. But sometimes there’s nothing I can do to avoid making someone mad. One of those times is when I’m in a relationship (booty call, long-term, etc.) and I’m just not happy. We’ve all been there before, whether it be a booty call or an actual girlfriend.
I recently met a very attractive girl on PassionSearch.com. She was great in bed, but I became bored with sleeping with her. I really don’t know if it was her not putting in the effort she was at first in the bedroom or if the thought of sleeping with her was no longer exciting. But I had to let her go. It was no longer enjoyable and I felt that if I continued sleeping with her, it would be all for her pleasure. I’m not a selfish guy, but I think any relationship MUST be beneficial to both involved.
How To Let Your Casual Sex Partner Go
Sorry, but I no longer want you fuck you. Goodbye!” would be a total dick move. I realize you’re not in an emotional relationship, but she is a human being and deserves to be treated as one. Another poor way of letting her go is by telling her she sucks in bed, even if that’s true. Be a man and show some class. Here’s what I do when I must break the “relationship” off….
- Tell her I’m looking for a long-term relationship and have met someone. I know this is dishonest, but as long as she doesn’t know, it’s a pretty good cop-out. OR…
- Tell her that I’m starting to become emotionally attached and no longer think it would be a good idea to continue sleeping with her. This only works if you’re confident she hasn’t become emotionally attached to you. If she has and you say that, you’re asking for trouble. My other way of letting a casual sex partner go is to…
- Tell her that you’re no longer interested in a sex-only relationship. Assure her that the sex has been amazing but you just don’t want this type of relationship any more.
When It’s Time To Say “Baby, Your Services Are No Longer Needed!”
Now it’s time to go over when to let her go. There really is only one factor that comes into play when I decide to get rid of my casual sex partner – the sex isn’t any good. There have been times where I’ve had boring sex with a girl that’s normally great in the sack. So I don’t get rid of her after one poor sexual encounter. But if it becomes a regular problem, she’s got to go. After a few bad lays, get rid of her QUICKLY. Don’t keep the relationship going. You might have other reasons for ditching a fuck buddy (i.e. you found someone else), but for me, I only get rid of her if she’s stopped giving me great sex.