SICK: My First Encounter With A Chick REALLY Into BDSM!

I love a freaky chick as much as the next guy. To me, just regular sex with no foreplay is kind of boring. It’s nothing more than a quick orgasm. I like to incorporate some foreplay into my sex life and so does every woman I’ve ever been with. In fact, you would probably consider me a “freaky” dude if I shared with you some of my fetishes, although I’m not going to do that. That isn’t what this Blog is all about.


Although I’m into a little rough sex and foreplay, there is one thing I just cannot get into – BDSM. Unfortunately, I’ve encountered quite a few women that were into the lifestyle so much that it seemed to consume their lives. These women couldn’t get off unless some form of BDSM was incorporated into our sex lives. For those of you that don’t find BDSM pleasurable, if you are with a girl that’s way into the lifestyle, you’re not going to like having sex with her. The following is a story about my first ever encounter with a chick that was into BDSM. After reading it, you’ll have an understanding for why you should avoid hooking up with BDSM chicks.

Having sex

Having sex

A Man. A Woman. A Whip. A Chain

You can probably guess what the whip and chain were for. That’s right – she wanted to beat the fuck out of me with it. Yay, fun? HELL NO! I’m not a submissive male. I’m very dominant, although I don’t care to beat the shit out of a girl – not even sexually. This was a very sexy girl I met on Passion.com. She had an amazing body and appeared to be very friendly and sexual.

When we chatted online, she never mentioned a thing about BDSM, nor did her profile. Our online conversation went well so she agreed to meet me for drinks. That went well, so she asked me if I’d like to come back to her place. I was pretty stoked. Here I was, an average guy, about to get it on with a smoking hot babe. That was until I entered her bedroom…

 Hot babe.

Hot babe.

When I get entered her bedroom, she immediately pulled out a whip and a chain. “What the fuck?” was my initial reaction. She grabbed me by the neck, threw me onto the bed and then started screaming at me like I was her slave. And that’s exactly what she was trying to turn me into. NO THANKS!

I really didn’t know how to react. Should I just get up and leave? I thought about that but I REALLY wanted to bang this chick. Besides, she wasn’t actually going to beat me with that whip, was she? YEP! That’s exactly what she got it out for. I was laying on the bed and she started calling me a bunch of names, telling me I’m a “bad boy” and that she was going to punish me. Then she basically beat the shit out of me with the whip. It was the WORST sexual experience of my life. After a few minutes, I told her to let me go and that I didn’t want to do this anymore. She removed the chains from my arm, I put my clothes on, and she told me to “get the fuck out of my house”. Stay classy, bitch. Stay classy!

Sexual experience

Sexual experience