Picking The Right Venue For Your First Casual Date

If you think women you meet online are going to come straight to your house for sex, you’re sadly mistaken. Well, some might, but they’re few and far between. With most women, you’ll have to take her out before getting laid. She won’t feel comfortable meeting anywhere other than a public place the first time. For all she knows, you’re a serial killer. You’re not, are you? Either way, you need to select the perfect public location to meet. Choose the wrong place and you’re not getting laid that night. Or any night.

Places to take her if you DON’T want to get laid

Dinner at a restaurant: You’re trying to get in her pants, not father her child. Impressing a woman you’re attempting to hookup with requires a different strategy than impressing a woman looking for a relationship. Dinner lasts too long and prevents you from getting intimate with her.

Walk in the park: Save this type of date for women you meet on Match.com. Much like dinner, this isn’t an intimate setting and it’s tough to work your charm on her while walking or sitting in a place where kids usually congregate.

Woman looking for a relationship

Woman looking for a relationship

The backseat of your car: Don’t get me wrong, I love sex in the backseat of a car as much as the next guy. But it’s kind of trashy and not a great place to meet on a first date. So don’t go offering to meet her in some cornfield to have sex in the backseat of your car.

Places to take her if you WANT pussy on the first date

Quiet, comfortable bar: It really doesn’t matter how classy the bar is. Even a hole-in-the-wall could be a great place to meet. What’s most important is the noise level and time of day. Go after dinner (around 8:00 PM or so). You don’t want to get there too early or too late. Avoid the dinner and late night crowd. Treat her to a game of pool, have a couple of drinks, and then get out of there and take her back to your bed as quickly as possible.

Have a couple of drinks

Have a couple of drinks

Coffee shop: Again, the time of day is important. If you’re not a drinker or she isn’t, this is your best option. Go at a time where the place will be quiet so you can hear each other speak. Don’t forget to dress nice and make the conversation interesting. Avoid small talk. And much like my advice for the bar, get her back to your place as soon as possible.

Dress nice and make the conversation interesting

Dress nice and make the conversation interesting