My Quickest Lay Yet: How I Went From Casual Date To Bed In 18 Minutes Flat!

Before I get into my advice, I should throw some caution to the wind. What you’re about to learn is definitely possible, but not common. Most of the women you hookup with will require more than a few minutes of chit-chat at a bar (or wherever you go) before getting her into bed. With that said, I once got a woman that I met on a casual sex dating site (PassionSearch.com) within 18 minutes after we met at a local pub.


On this day, I was really on my game. I could have charmed darn near any woman. I showed up for the date expecting to get laid, just like always. But I never would have guessed I would have had her in my bed so quickly. The average time for me is somewhere around 2 hours from the moment we meet to when she’s laying in my bed.

 Met on a casual sex dating site

Met on a casual sex dating site

How I Prepared For This Date

  • Put on my best outfit
  • Slapped on some high-quality cologne
  • Had a couple of drinks – but wasn’t wasted – to help bring out my charming personality and confidence
  • Re-read her profile and our Instant Message/Text conversations so I didn’t forget anything about her

Basically, I was feeling good about myself, confident, and I was prepared to engage in great conversation with her. My normal routine isn’t quite so extensive. I don’t typically drink before a date, nor do I go back and re-read our previous conversations. Sometimes I don’t even put on my best outfit. But this chick was smoking hot and had sent me a text earlier in the day that she was incredibly horny. So I wanted to make sure I did everything I could to get laid that night. I just didn’t know it would be so quick!

 Prepared to engage in great conversation with her

Prepared to engage in great conversation with her

The Date – How I Charmed My Way Into Her Pants So Quickly

We met at a quiet lounge about 5 minutes from my house (distance was also an important factor). When she showed up, I instantly walked up to her, smiled, and gave her a big hug. Then I ordered us a drink, sat down with her at a comfy booth and immediately gave her some compliments about her dress. It was incredibly sexy and I wanted her to know that’s how I felt about it.

About 5 minutes into our discussion, I smoothly suggested we go back to my place. I let her know that I live a mere 5 minutes away. I could tell right away, from her body language, that she was interested in me. So I figured there was no reason to waste time chatting and drinking in this bar. She wanted me and I knew it, so I made sure to strike while the iron was hot. If we continued the conversation for another hour, there was always the possibility of her losing interest in me. Always offer to bring her back to your place the moment you are certain she wants you. In this case, it just so happened to be within 5 minutes of meeting.

Incredibly sexy

Incredibly sexy

Three Things You Can Say On Your Casual Date To NOT Have Sex

Want to know the secret to banging a girl you met online on the first date? Dress nice, be friendly, smell good, take her somewhere fun, and keep the conversation interesting. Seriously, that’s all you have to do. The girl you’re meeting has already decided she wants your cock. You just have to make sure you don’t give her a reason to change her mind.


Unfortunately, for many guys, they tend to do stupid shit to convince their date to NOT give it up. This simply amazes me. They show up, act like a complete dipshit and then wonder why their lady friend ditched them. The biggest mistake guys make is to act completely different from the way they did online. She was digging your act online, so you better be that same guy offline.

Another common screw-up guys make is to have poor fashion sense. I don’t consider myself a fashion expert, but I know what looks good on me and what does not. If you don’t have a clue as to what looks good on you, try asking someone for their opinion before going out. The mistake made isn’t always wearing a crappy outfit. Sometimes the mistake is wearing a nice outfit that just doesn’t fit your personality. But the most common way to screw things up with your date is to annoy her with your lame or ignorant conversation…

The secret to banging a girl you met online on the first date

The secret to banging a girl you met online on the first date

Three Conversation Topics That Will Have You Going Home Alone To Masturbate

Religion: You’re a proud Christian. That’s awesome. She doesn’t give a damn, even if she shares your beliefs. Never bring religion into the discussion. Don’t try to argue with her about her religious beliefs. Don’t try to force your religion on her. Don’t even mention the “R” word.

Never bring religion into the discussion

Never bring religion into the discussion

Politics: Does it really matter to you if she voted for Obama or McCain in 2008? Even if you’re a hardcore Conservative and she’s a hardcore Liberal, it shouldn’t affect your decision to sleep with her. However, if you do come from opposite ends of the political spectrum, she might not want to hangout with you. Religion and politics are touchy subjects that have no business being a part of conversation on a first date. Or any other time, for that matter. This is sex, not CNN.

 Your decision to sleep with her

Your decision to sleep with her

The weather and other boring topics: A guy that doesn’t know what to talk to a woman about always brings up the weather. “Man, I can’t believe this heat wave we’re having”. Here’s a piece of advice – if you’re going to start talking about the weather, just get up out of your seat and go home to jerk off. No guy has ever been laid because he entertained a girl by talking about the weather, his annoying boss, and other boring subjects.

Dealing With “Shy Librarian” Type Girls: The Art Of Conversation

Many years ago, I had a major crush on this shy girl. This crush lasted more than a year. But I never got with her because I just couldn’t ever get her to open up to me. She would never start conversations with me and when I spoke to her, she would only give me 2-word answers. So I automatically assumed she wasn’t interested. Not too long ago, I found out through a friend that this girl did like me but was too shy to tell me. She had such a big crush on me that she didn’t know what to say around me.


Had I just known how to get her to open up, I definitely would have hooked up with her. Times have changed and I’ve become more experienced with all types of women. I’ve learned how to get shy girls to open up. You have to understand that the reason they are shy is because they lack confidence. They’re not shy because they’re naturally quiet and boring. Believe me, shy girls are just as much fun in the bedroom as outgoing girls. Sometimes they’re even better because they will really let loose with a guy they trust. But before they are willing to get in bed with a guy, they need to trust you. So that’s exactly what you must do – build up her trust by opening her up through great conversation.

Tips for getting her to open up to you

  • Smile frequentlyShy women are afraid to communicatewith some men because they automatically assume a guy is an asshole. If you show her, by smiling, that you’re not an asshole, she’ll probably feel more comfortable around you.

    Smile frequently

    Smile frequently

  • Don’t ask her why she’s so shy – Shy women are shy because they lack confidence. Do you really think she’s going to come out and say that? She knows why she’s shy and will feel like you’re insulting her by asking why she’s so shy.

    Don’t ask her why she’s so shy

    Don’t ask her why she’s so shy

  • Ask her non-intimidating questions – You might have to ask a handful of questionsbefore she starts giving you complete answers. But if you’re persistent and show her that you’re friendly and want to talk about the things she’s interested in, she’ll eventually open up to you. Good questions to ask include what she does for a living, what her interests are, where her favorite places to travel are, etc.

    Ask her non-intimidating questions

    Ask her non-intimidating questions

Getting a shy girl to open up to you is all about building trust. Shy girls have a way of no longer being shy when they’re around someone they’re comfortable with. They may be completely silent around most people, but if they trust you, they’ll yap away about anything. And never assume just because she’s shy that it means she’s boring. Shy girls can actually be a lot of fun to hangout with and are often incredible fuck buddies. They love sex just as much as an outgoing girl. You just have to work a little harder to get her in your bed.

Three Moves No Woman Can Resist In Bed!

Experience is everything when it comes to sex. You can’t expect to please a woman completely the first time (or the 2nd, 3rdth, 5th etc.) you have sex. So if you’re inexperienced in the bedroom, don’t expect to satisfy every woman you hookup with. It’s okay to disappoint the first few women you meet. My advice is to practice as much as possible.


When I first started hooking up with women online, I met a couple of fatties just to rub one off on. It wasn’t the most pleasurable experience, but it was a great way to learn a few things. Fat women are very EASY. Even the most desperate guys can hookup with a fattie. Plus, they don’t really give a shit how good you are in bed. They’re just happy to have some companionship. And it’s not like you ever have to speak to them again. Just hit it and quit it. That was the motto I used.
Then I moved on to attractive women that won’t continue sleeping with a guy that can’t please them. Regardless of how experienced you are, there are a few moves you can make in bed to have your lady friend going crazy. A quick side note: every woman is different. Some like it rough, some like it tame, and some like to get freaky. But these 3 moves will turn ANY woman on…

 First started hooking up with women online

First started hooking up with women online

The ‘ol reach-around…

When you’re laying in bed with your girl and have your arms around her, take your hand and reach around her ass and start softly rubbing her thighs. This will get her excited and it feels good. She’ll probably begin smiling and encouraging you to venture towards her pussy. Tease her for a little bit and then make your way up to her vagina. Then finger-fuck her until she cums.

Blowing her…body…

Women love the feel of your breath blowing on their skin. It’s incredibly sexy and will easily turn her on. Have her lay down on her stomach, completely naked. Start with her ears, then move on down her back and to her legs. Make sure to kiss and rub while doing this. Go slow and let her enjoy it for a while. After you’ve finished doing this, fuck the shit out of her!

Incredibly sexy

Incredibly sexy

Give her a full body massage

You don’t have to be a Massage Therapist to give a decent massage. Nearly any woman will become immediately aroused by a massage. Start with her neck and shoulders, then work your way down her back, to her thighs and ass, and then legs and feet. Don’t miss an inch of her body. And just like the blowing tip above, take things slow. There’s no hurry. It’s almost a given that a guy who gives a nice massage will get laid immediately after

Full body massage

Full body massage

Picking The Right Venue For Your First Casual Date

If you think women you meet online are going to come straight to your house for sex, you’re sadly mistaken. Well, some might, but they’re few and far between. With most women, you’ll have to take her out before getting laid. She won’t feel comfortable meeting anywhere other than a public place the first time. For all she knows, you’re a serial killer. You’re not, are you? Either way, you need to select the perfect public location to meet. Choose the wrong place and you’re not getting laid that night. Or any night.

Places to take her if you DON’T want to get laid

Dinner at a restaurant: You’re trying to get in her pants, not father her child. Impressing a woman you’re attempting to hookup with requires a different strategy than impressing a woman looking for a relationship. Dinner lasts too long and prevents you from getting intimate with her.

Walk in the park: Save this type of date for women you meet on Match.com. Much like dinner, this isn’t an intimate setting and it’s tough to work your charm on her while walking or sitting in a place where kids usually congregate.

Woman looking for a relationship

Woman looking for a relationship

The backseat of your car: Don’t get me wrong, I love sex in the backseat of a car as much as the next guy. But it’s kind of trashy and not a great place to meet on a first date. So don’t go offering to meet her in some cornfield to have sex in the backseat of your car.

Places to take her if you WANT pussy on the first date

Quiet, comfortable bar: It really doesn’t matter how classy the bar is. Even a hole-in-the-wall could be a great place to meet. What’s most important is the noise level and time of day. Go after dinner (around 8:00 PM or so). You don’t want to get there too early or too late. Avoid the dinner and late night crowd. Treat her to a game of pool, have a couple of drinks, and then get out of there and take her back to your bed as quickly as possible.

Have a couple of drinks

Have a couple of drinks

Coffee shop: Again, the time of day is important. If you’re not a drinker or she isn’t, this is your best option. Go at a time where the place will be quiet so you can hear each other speak. Don’t forget to dress nice and make the conversation interesting. Avoid small talk. And much like my advice for the bar, get her back to your place as soon as possible.

Dress nice and make the conversation interesting

Dress nice and make the conversation interesting