Three Things You Can Say AFTER Sex That Will Have Her Coming Back For More!

Getting laid isn’t that difficult if you have a little game. The hard part is getting her to want you again and again after the first sexual encounter. Most guys can get laid but really don’t know how to keep the relationship going. The mistakes they make are either a lack of production during sex/foreplay or they don’t say the right things after sex.


I’m not going to go into detail about sexual positions or give you advice on how to avoid premature ejaculation. That’s not what this column is about. However, I can share with you a few post-sex comments I’ve made that ensured my woman wanted to continue the relationship. Before I do that, let’s quickly go over the steps to guaranteeing she’ll become a steady fuck buddy…

  • Give her compliments
  • Perform oral sex on her and get her off during it
  • Get her off during intercourse (if she’s capable of it)
  • Let her know that you’re enjoying the experience
  • Put out often enough to keep her happy

     Sexual positions

    Sexual positions

Three Things I Say To ALL Of My Booty Calls AFTER Sex

Now that you know what you have to do to keep her happy, I’m going to share with you 3 statements I make after the first time we have sex. Then I’m going to give you the reason I make these statements…

  • “You were absolutely amazing! That’s the best sex I’ve ever had!”
  • “I could tell you enjoyed it, and I sincerely hope this becomes a regular activity.”
  • “The best part of that was watching you get off. You are so sexy when you’re having an orgasm and I love pleasing a beautiful woman like yourself!”

    Best sex

    Best sex

Why Those Comments Will Ensure She Comes Back For More

Above, I mentioned that women love being complimented. In two of those statements, I gave her a subtle compliment. In the first statement, I complimented her on being great in the sack. In the third statement, I complimented her on being sexy and beautiful. I tell every woman I sleep with – unless I no longer want to fuck them – that they’re the best lay I’ve ever had. Women like to hear that even if they know you’re just bullshitting.

The third comment I made was to let her know that I’m a giver, not just a receiver. So many guys are selfish in bed. The ones that aren’t are in high demand. The second comment was made to let her know that I had a great time and want to continue the sexual relationship.

 Sexy and beautifu

Sexy and beautifu

Dealing With Drama: Tips For The Casual Dater As Related To INSANE Chicks

Some women just cannot handle a casual sex relationship. Many females have serious emotional issues. Having sex with a guy only compounds them. Casual sex often leads to hurt feelings when the girl you’re sleeping with becomes emotionally attached to you. It really becomes a problem when you don’t share those feelings or refuse to enter into a committed relationship.


Another common problem is when you’re hooking up with a married woman. I have always had a thing for married women and have slept with quite a few. But I’ve come to accept the fact that there will be drama involved. Even many single women have drama. You shouldn’t freak out every time your partner brings drama into the relationship. Accept the fact that it’s bound to happen eventually. And follow these tips on how to deal with a drama queen…

 Having sex with a guy

Having sex with a guy

Tell her to GET THE FUCK OUT!

This won’t always work. Some women are absolute psychos and relentless. If you don’t give her what she wants, she’ll do whatever it takes to get it from you. However, I’d suggest your first attempt should be to just tell her to fuck off. If I’m sleeping with a girl and she starts to become a drama queen, I will almost always get rid of her. If this doesn’t work or you want to continue having a sexual relationship with her, try this…

 Having a sexual relationship

Having a sexual relationship

Sit down with her and have a discussion

Sometimes things are best worked out over a cold beer in a friendly atmosphere. Take her to a bar and let her ramble on about her problems and feelings. Allow her to say whatever it is she needs to get off her mind. Then tell her where you stand and how you feel. Be polite and listen to what she says. I know it sucks to have to do this, but this may be your only option. One annoying conversation won’t kill you and it could end the drama. If the drama is stemming from her wanting more than just sex from you, don’t be rude and tell her to fuck off.

Let her know that she’s a great girl but you don’t want anything more than sex at this point in your life, even if that isn’t true. Try not to hurt her feelings any more than you already have. You may not actually care about her feelings, but I’m sure you care about your car. If she’s crazy enough, she’ll fuck your car up if you piss her off.

Sit down with her and have a discussion

Sit down with her and have a discussion

You simply cannot avoid drama if you have enough casual sex relationships. It’s bound to happen, so just accept it and deal with it. Never allow a woman to make you miserable. That’s why I get rid of my problem booty calls. If they have a problem with keeping the relationship as sex-only, then I want nothing to do with them.

Turning A One-Night Stand Into A Steady Casual Sex Partner

She’s hot, she gave you an amazing orgasm, and now you want to have her again…and again…and again. Unfortunately, most hookups don’t last very long. It’s usually the fault of the guy. Sometimes timing or other factors play a role in prematurely ending a casual sex relationship. I’m going to teach you how you can do what most guys are unable to do – keep her coming back for more.

Pre-Qualify Her Before Ever Meeting

If you’re not looking for just a one-night stand, you must first determine if this woman is looking for a steady sexual relationship. There are plenty of women on casual sex dating sites that just want to fuck a guy once and never see him again. Most will tell you up front if that’s all they want, but others might be dishonest. So you have to look for certain clues, such as the following…

Steady sexual relationship

Steady sexual relationship

  • Her boyfriend just cheated on her and she says she wants to get back at him. These types of girls just want to fuck a guy to piss their boyfriend off. They’re not looking for anything steady.
  • She’s on vacation. If she doesn’t live in your town and is looking for a hookup while on vacation, it might be worth contacting her. Just don’t expect her to continue the relationship after she leaves town.
  • She just broke up with her boyfriend. She’s feeling down and wants something to get her mind off her ex. While she’s probably about as easy of a woman as you’ll find, I wouldn’t expect her to give it up more than a few times.

Now that you’ve pre-qualified your women, let’s go over the ways to ensure she becomes a steady sexual partner

  • Give her a mind blowing orgasm.The first time you have sex with a womanis the most important fuck of your relationship. Even if you suck in bed after the first time, she’ll be willing to continue fucking you at least for a while. Put all your effort into the first fuck. Work your ass off to please her because she’ll be begging you to come back.

     Sex with a woman

    Sex with a woman

  • Occasionally give her gifts. I know she’s not your so-called “girlfriend”, but you can still make her feel special and important to you. Don’t spend a lot of money on these gifts but make sure they’re something that she would enjoy having.
  • Compliment her. Let her know that you enjoy having sex with her and that you think she’s pretty. Women love compliments, even if its just from a booty call. Making her feel special is essential to keeping the relationship alive.
  • Go down on her. I’ve never met a female that didn’t like to have her pussy eatenout. Most guys are terrible at oral sex. Practice eating her pussy and pay attention to her reaction. If she’s reacting positively to the way you’re using your tongue – keep doing it. Guys that are willing to go down on a woman and know how to do it are in high demand.

    Enjoy having sex with her

    Enjoy having sex with her

First Casual Date Ideas For The Man On A Budget

Being broke and horny has left so many guys home alone, jerking off to free Internet porn. A few years back, I literally spent my last dollar on monthly membership fees for a casual dating site. I had some success attracting women on this site and was able to set-up a few dates with some women I really wanted to bang. The only problem was I had no money. So how on earth was I going to hookup with them? The answer is I didn’t. I tried suggesting to each of them that they come back to my place and we could watch movies.


That didn’t go over well because very few women will be willing to meet a guy they met online anywhere but a public establishment. Being a guy, I knew that if we went somewhere in public, I would have to be the one paying. And if I asked her to pay, there was no way I was getting laid. I can’t really help you get laid if you have absolutely no money. It’s very difficult. But I can help you if you’re on a limited budget. Before I contacted more women, I made sure I at least had enough money to take her out for a first date.

 Casual dating site

After the first date, I knew I wouldn’t have to spend much more on these women because most of our meetings would be done in our bedrooms. It’s not like I was trying to build a long-term relationship with them. It doesn’t matter how much money I have in the bank – I will NOT spend a ton of money on a woman I want nothing more than sex from on. I don’t need to. Money was only a factor when I was flat broke. Now that I can at least afford a $15-$20 bill, I’m able to get down as many women’s pants on a first date as someone that forks out over $100 for a bill on a first date. How do I get away with spending so little while still impressing women?

Trying to build a long-term relationship

Trying to build a long-term relationship

HAPPY HOUR!

If you can afford an online dating site, you can afford Happy Hour. Every town has plenty of bars with Happy Hour specials. They’re usually early in the evening, before dinner or after dinner. If you’re fortunate enough to have a local bar with post-dinner Happy Hour’s, consider yourself lucky. This is the best time to take her out on a date.

I don’t want to spend much time at the bar with a woman. My goal is always to get her back to my place as quickly as possible. I’m just meeting her at a bar to build trust. She just wants to know that I’m not a serial killer. Once she’s comfortable with me, it’s easy to get her back to my place. The shorter you are out with her, the less expensive the tab will be.

Spend much time at the bar with a woman

Spend much time at the bar with a woman

Happy Hour anywhere is cheap. If you’re out with her for an hour, there’s no reason you should spend more than $20. That’s 2 drinks each and an appetizer, plus tip. If you’re there for a half hour, you can probably get by on $15. You can’t beat it. If she’s not a drinker or prefers meeting somewhere other than a bar, take her to a coffee shop. Just don’t go to Starbuck’s because you’ll have to take out a freakin’ loan just to buy one cup of their overpriced coffee.

Why Women View Casual Sex As The Ultimate Sex: A Lesson In Psychology

I’m very experienced with women. I know what makes them tick. I know what turns them on. I know why they do and say the things they do and say. And I know what’s going through their mind at all times, even when they say something completely different. You’re probably not as experienced with women as I am, but I can teach you how to get inside their heads.


Knowing how women think is important. If you can get inside her head and find out what makes her tick, you’ll have a better chance of getting laid. I always try to figure out why the woman I’m chatting with has signed up for a casual sex dating site. It gives me an idea of my chances to sleep with her, and how quickly she’ll be willing to put out.

Most women don’t really care about lovemaking…

They care about having an orgasm because it’s fun and it feels good. Women lie…a lot. They lie about what they look for in a man (yeah, right, they want nice guys!). They also lie about what sex means to them. Us men are up front about what we want – sex, and lots of it. Women will claim to not want random sex or a FWB relationship because they want a true “lover”. When they have sex, it needs to be a powerful, emotional encounter. BULLSHIT!

Random sex

Random sex

Do you know what women really love to do? CUM! They want a guy that can make them cum…hard. They crave cock just as much as you crave pussy. They wake up in the morning hoping that a penis will enter their vagina at least once, if not 2-3 times. A woman wants a guy that can give her a powerful orgasm. I’ve been in a few long-term relationships where we truly loved each other, but I’m fairly certain I never made my girlfriend orgasm because we were in love. I made her orgasm because I pounded her pussy like it had done me wrong.

Don’t get me wrong, women (and men) enjoy sex in a relationship just as much as they do casual sex. Most people’s preference would be to sleep with someone they’re in a committed relationship with. However, there’s one problem with that. Sex in darn near every relationship eventually grows tiresome. That’s why men and women cheat on their significant other’s so often. Those that don’t cheat only remain faithful because they feel it’s morally wrong to cheat on their lover.

Girlfriend orgasm

Girlfriend orgasm

So Why Do Women Love Casual Sex So Much?

Because there are no emotions involved. It’s nothing more than good old-fashioned sex, which is what women truly desire. Casual sex is rarely boring sex. There might not be any emotions involved, but if you’re hooking up with someone that’s willing to do whatever it takes to please you, it’s going to be an amazing experience. That’s why women enjoy it so much.

Women Love Casual Sex So Much

Women Love Casual Sex So Much