Before I get into my advice, I should throw some caution to the wind. What you’re about to learn is definitely possible, but not common. Most of the women you hookup with will require more than a few minutes of chit-chat at a bar (or wherever you go) before getting her into bed. With that said, I once got a woman that I met on a casual sex dating site (PassionSearch.com) within 18 minutes after we met at a local pub.
On this day, I was really on my game. I could have charmed darn near any woman. I showed up for the date expecting to get laid, just like always. But I never would have guessed I would have had her in my bed so quickly. The average time for me is somewhere around 2 hours from the moment we meet to when she’s laying in my bed.
How I Prepared For This Date
- Put on my best outfit
- Slapped on some high-quality cologne
- Had a couple of drinks – but wasn’t wasted – to help bring out my charming personality and confidence
- Re-read her profile and our Instant Message/Text conversations so I didn’t forget anything about her
Basically, I was feeling good about myself, confident, and I was prepared to engage in great conversation with her. My normal routine isn’t quite so extensive. I don’t typically drink before a date, nor do I go back and re-read our previous conversations. Sometimes I don’t even put on my best outfit. But this chick was smoking hot and had sent me a text earlier in the day that she was incredibly horny. So I wanted to make sure I did everything I could to get laid that night. I just didn’t know it would be so quick!
The Date – How I Charmed My Way Into Her Pants So Quickly
We met at a quiet lounge about 5 minutes from my house (distance was also an important factor). When she showed up, I instantly walked up to her, smiled, and gave her a big hug. Then I ordered us a drink, sat down with her at a comfy booth and immediately gave her some compliments about her dress. It was incredibly sexy and I wanted her to know that’s how I felt about it.
About 5 minutes into our discussion, I smoothly suggested we go back to my place. I let her know that I live a mere 5 minutes away. I could tell right away, from her body language, that she was interested in me. So I figured there was no reason to waste time chatting and drinking in this bar. She wanted me and I knew it, so I made sure to strike while the iron was hot. If we continued the conversation for another hour, there was always the possibility of her losing interest in me. Always offer to bring her back to your place the moment you are certain she wants you. In this case, it just so happened to be within 5 minutes of meeting.