Being broke and horny has left so many guys home alone, jerking off to free Internet porn. A few years back, I literally spent my last dollar on monthly membership fees for a casual dating site. I had some success attracting women on this site and was able to set-up a few dates with some women I really wanted to bang. The only problem was I had no money. So how on earth was I going to hookup with them? The answer is I didn’t. I tried suggesting to each of them that they come back to my place and we could watch movies.
That didn’t go over well because very few women will be willing to meet a guy they met online anywhere but a public establishment. Being a guy, I knew that if we went somewhere in public, I would have to be the one paying. And if I asked her to pay, there was no way I was getting laid. I can’t really help you get laid if you have absolutely no money. It’s very difficult. But I can help you if you’re on a limited budget. Before I contacted more women, I made sure I at least had enough money to take her out for a first date.
After the first date, I knew I wouldn’t have to spend much more on these women because most of our meetings would be done in our bedrooms. It’s not like I was trying to build a long-term relationship with them. It doesn’t matter how much money I have in the bank – I will NOT spend a ton of money on a woman I want nothing more than sex from on. I don’t need to. Money was only a factor when I was flat broke. Now that I can at least afford a $15-$20 bill, I’m able to get down as many women’s pants on a first date as someone that forks out over $100 for a bill on a first date. How do I get away with spending so little while still impressing women?
If you can afford an online dating site, you can afford Happy Hour. Every town has plenty of bars with Happy Hour specials. They’re usually early in the evening, before dinner or after dinner. If you’re fortunate enough to have a local bar with post-dinner Happy Hour’s, consider yourself lucky. This is the best time to take her out on a date.
I don’t want to spend much time at the bar with a woman. My goal is always to get her back to my place as quickly as possible. I’m just meeting her at a bar to build trust. She just wants to know that I’m not a serial killer. Once she’s comfortable with me, it’s easy to get her back to my place. The shorter you are out with her, the less expensive the tab will be.
Happy Hour anywhere is cheap. If you’re out with her for an hour, there’s no reason you should spend more than $20. That’s 2 drinks each and an appetizer, plus tip. If you’re there for a half hour, you can probably get by on $15. You can’t beat it. If she’s not a drinker or prefers meeting somewhere other than a bar, take her to a coffee shop. Just don’t go to Starbuck’s because you’ll have to take out a freakin’ loan just to buy one cup of their overpriced coffee.